Enough Now

Time for a favorite movie scene!

The movie, "Love Actually."

First, if you haven't seen the movie... you must.  SO MANY GOOD SCENES!

I love this one the most because of what it represents.  Watch, then we can discuss:

Enough Now.

He loves her but cannot have her, because she is married to his best friend.  He knows all along that he can't have her.  He knows that she does not and will not ever love him the way he wants her to. Yet, he loves her despite it all.

He decides that his only form of closure is to tell her how he feels.... "Without hope or agenda."

She is touched so deeply that she gives him a Christmas kiss.  Then, and only then is he ready to let go of his obsession and move forward with his life.

Enough Now.

Why do I love this scene so much?  Because it shows you that you need to be honest with yourself and those you care about in order to move past your problems.  His problem is a love that can never be reciprocated.  He needs to tell her to move past it.

What do you need to get out of your system?  What can you open up about that will help you release yourself from the pain you are holding on to?  Let it out.  Then you can say....

Enough.

Enough Now.

And move on.